Ladies PLEASE help me?

Dude, just be a man about it and call her on her bull$hit. Tell her you don't like where it is going and how she is loopy with her feelings. No wonder the child's father split. Don't be afraid to risk letting her go. Would you rather she keep you around, dominate the relationship, and keep you guessing from hour to hour what will be next? That's no way to live. Tell her what you want and let her deal with it. You have stress too, we all do, that doesn't give us license to phuck with people and play with their feelings, especially the one you are in a relationship with. Think it out, and be courageous with your decision.